It’s the day after my uncle died, seven years ago, of cancer of the soft tissue. We (My immediate family, uncles, aunts and cousins) were at a barbeque to celebrate my Nan’s birthday, whch was on Tuesday. My cousin, who I’m informed doesn’t go out drinking often (to my surprise, she seems to me the sort of person who would) and she had as much drink as me (Note; I almost never drink, hate alcohol. It was Pimm’s, which I can stomach since it’s masked with fruit and lemonade) From what I hear, her mother, my aunt, turned to her and said “Your father (my uncle) would be disgusted.”
My god. Just … wow.
The day after he’d died, seven years ago, and this comment. I’m shocked and appalled at my aunt’s acts. I never would have thought that she’d have been so disgraceful.